midwestheel's blog
Don't Leave me hanging!
This is one of my biggest pet peeves: guys leaving me hanging! I have been left hanging quite a bit lately! Some guys seem interested in a match, and then they don't talk to me for months on end. There was one guy from another website (Global Fight) from the UK. He strung me along for months. I sent him several messages over the course of that time. He never replied until one day, and in that reply he essentially told me to Fuck Off! I've also had guys block me for no reason or notice.
The points:
1. If you have a problem with me, take it up with me, don't just block me without notice or a reason. Let's talk about it!
2. Don't string me along for months pretending to be interested and don't contact me. I know stuff happens, but even a little not is appreciated!
kimmetje (151 )
15/9/2017 10:34It's unfortunately one of the down-sides of all these electronic meeting sites and apps... people see profiles and forget that there might be a person behind it with sensitivities and vulnerabilities. They forget that someone might be genuinely interested, and looking forward based on the interest signalled. At the same time, some people have a hard time saying no and maybe that's why it can be difficult for them to break off a conversation...